Something magical happens when you get in a room at the right time, with the right people, and with the correct container set...
Having attended dozens of masterminds, seminars, and other coaching events, I can tell you that the value you get out of them varies drastically.
The most effective ones all have one thing in common...
A proper container is set.
So what does that even mean?
A quote I came up with a few years back is useful to explain it... "You can't change anyone. All you can do is set a container safe enough for people to be inspired to change themselves."
Do you know when people make changes?
When they decide they want to.
What that quote means is that my only job as the leader of WATT is to make the events and masterminds emotionally, physically, and spiritually safe enough for these men to take off their masks and truly be seen.
To be seen in that state and loved not for who they think they need to be, but for exactly who they are.
If I'm being honest, this coaching group has worked in spite of me... I've made more mistakes than any CEO ever could have.
I've burned bridges I didn't need to, managed guys when I needed to step aside, and I've been out of integrity more times than I'd like to admit.
But see, that's also kind of the genius of the group.
I've never once told the men to be like me.
I've never once told them I have my own shit figured out.
What I am willing to do is step in and take action, knowing that I am not qualified to lead this group, aware that my bullshit and insecurities are what sometimes hold it back, and understanding that I have more growth to do than most of the men who sign up for this program.
And that is why it creates such a safe container.
Because I don't care where you've been or what you've done, that makes you believe you are unworthy of love.
I know you are enough because I know I am enough.
I know God still loves my imperfect ass, and therefore, he loves these other men just the same.
Every exercise and event I host is designed for men to put down their masks and to say, "This is me, I hope you'll still love me."
This program is not perfect.
What it is is an opportunity to be placed in a container with 30-50 other men and to be able to be triggered, tried, tested, and held accountable to see where the light breaks through the cracks and to be able to say, "This is where I need to do some work."
Change doesn't happen by accident... It happens when you put yourself in a room that is a little uncomfortable.
Then, in a few days, it becomes the most comfortable place you've ever felt.
All of a sudden, it's okay not to be okay. It's okay to let your guard down and allow others to support you for a moment.
I recently created a website featuring over 300 testimonials from men who have had a life-changing experience with We Are The They.
I encourage you to read about it and decide for yourself if it's time to make that change.
I hope you will.
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